Category: Dating and Relationships
what are one's biggest turn ons.....?
Let's have a counter part here.
hmmm, let's think here...biggest turn ons...Aaron's delicious hot and sexy voice, a strong connection, a girl with long hair to play with...(not too long), soft lips to kiss...mmm! Um, someone who doesn't have a lot of obdy hair! There are other things, but...they're a bit more personal...oh, and how can we forget J-squared's square winky...hmmm, that might've been one of those personal ones...*sighs*
long hair, and a nice voice, not one of those deep throaty voices though, I like a sort of femenin voice. Also I like a beautiful tinkling laugh. I'm odd I know.
well, I'd have to say some of mine are loyalty, a genuine appreciation for the one you're with, a hopeless romantic, and...... well a man who knows just how to hold a woman when she needs to be held, and she doesn't have to ask him, he just knows.
Oh, one more thing, communication, and the ability to know what each other is thinking without words.
Orlando Bloom wearing a leather kilt on the back of a custom Triumph bike, with no underwear, and even fewer inhibitions.
Woohoo Goblin, I like that one too. LOL
A dominating shi woman who is not afraid of the whips and chains. She has to be a government spy, fit, and trim. She has to weigh aprox 235 and be able to box like Mike Tyson. SHe has to be able to speak cling on.
Hey, that describes me perfectly. LOL
and, she must be able to eat gagh!
sarcasm is nice, but something serious would also be appreciated.
Okay, seriously, I like men with deep voices, although that is not a necessity. A soft southern accent is also nice, but again not necessary. I like being with men who like to touch a lot and who let me know I turn them on. I don't think anything turns a person on more than knowing they turn the other person on as well.
That's easy. Kindness, affection, a sense of humor, patience, and someone who's loving emotionally and physically, although not to exess, so that it becomes possessive or annoying.
yes, I'd have to say that a man's vocal ability in bed turns me on as well.
I like to know I'm doing well, and there's nothing sexier then verbal feedback.
mmmmm
Would you really say that a turn on is patient loving, caring, all that. I mean I no that is very important. But everytime my partner is loving or patient. I love it, but its not what really makes me wanna fuck there brains out. Does anyone at all see what I'm trying to say hear? I'm just saying those are wonderful things. But not turnons.
i agree with rissa, i think turn on's are much deeper than that.
I was going to make the same point Rissa. Turn ons are completely different than qualities such as kindness, loving nature, etc. For example, you can get turned on by someone who has a deep voice and is tall, but that person could be a real bastard in terms of how he treats you. Likewise, a real sweetheart of a man might not have any qualities that really get you turned on sexually.
I like gaping eye sockets, and room temperature women.
lmao can I get a necrophiliak!
Fur! Fur! Fur! a big bedful of stuffed animals, nothing more and nothing less. A nice female doesn't go amiss either. Long silky hair creamy skin and nothing too big or small. she'd better be tall, as well. probably about five seven or taller. And you bunch keep your mouths shut that I posted here!
Hahahaha, um I know to much and will keep my mouth shut.
evil grin, nice one. very nice indeed, good images
I know you guys were thinking of more sexual things, but I don't always think like that. Lol. And since I have no experience, er, having sex, I don't tend to know what exactly would make me want to do it. So sorry if my thoughts didn't meet with the standards of this topic. lol
What turns me on about the opposite sex? Well, first and foremost the inside matters like a caring heart, an intelligent mind, honesty, a sense of humor, creativity. Once the deep stuff is out of the way, my more shallow preferences are strong arms and hands, long hair, and a voice that doesn't sound like you're going through puberty. It doesn't have to be totally deep, but a smooth voice with depth in it. Of course, southwestern German accents are a plus, teehee! What turns me on in general... the biggest has to be hot water! Soaking in a bath or taking a steaming shower just relaxes the hell out of me and puts me in the mood.
What turns on, :): a sweet voice that sends chills up your spine, a desire to spend time with me, touching, kissing and etc. A lady who treats me with respect.
caitlin, i personally wasn't talking about anything sexual, but i can't speak for anyone else. i was talking about more of an emotional connection, and just being with your loved one.
Thanks, PB. I haven't had a loved one yet, though, lol. Since i'm only sixteen, you know. Still looking. But not for anyone here, lol. Cheers.
Rissa I agree.In a guy I prefer an element of risk, someone with an edge, that is a definate turn on for me. Necrophiliac is interesting, that's all about control hmm it seems like far too much effort for little reward.
….The biggest “Turn On” you question Ms. Crystal Rain…well, far from the biggest yet still…. The senses profusely heightened as par for the course…
wtf was that?
Well, I maybe wrong. I don't no for sure. But I thought a turn on ment getting you arouzed. In the mood for sex. I mean, if that's not write. Someone correct me. But, that was why I was wondering about all the things people have been saying about a good heart and stuff.That's all. I wasn't trying to be rude to anyone.
This is incorrect. Usually turning someone on or off implies flipping a small switch behind the left ear. You must open the switch's cover by depressing it. Beneath this cover lies the key to life and death.
I think you are right, Rissa. Smile, I was the one who misinterpreted what a turn-on was. No hard feelings. Hugs.
Rissa, that is the way I interpreted the term "turn on" but obviously some people interpreted it diffferently.
Blake, very funny.
Id say Grace also fancies the life out of a 6ft 3 Hells Angel, with long dark wavy hair, a risky smile, and a capricious disposition.
Good story Grace I am not sure that any of you are serious II like to think that turn on is about floor play hehe and touching But I guess anything could turn on some people
For some people, the personality is enough to turn them on. I'm like that; the physical attributes of people honestly don't enter my mind 3/4 of the time. Though I will admit voices and certain scents also can turn me on somewhat.
the turn ons of humans are a very odd but interesting subject and as can be seen here, people get turned on by a wide range of things from personality to voice to fur and necrophilia! hahaha more power to you, diversity is the best thing.
I don't get that. I mean if someone's personallity turned me on. I would be in a very bad state all the time me thinks. lol
Uh. Grace, were you bored.... LOL! Confusion all the way with that story with oh so many words of which frankly I have never heard in my life before...
Well not any personallity turns me on obviously. :) Only certain types. I guess it's a bit hard to explain. Can someone else explain it better?
wow, lots of different perspectives, as for grace, think you've taken up enough space, you could have just put all that in one post?
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ummm, grace? that was pointless. i don't know what that was about.
As far as personality goes I think the point is that certain people are attracted by certain personalities, is all and that intensifies the attraction toward that person.
another post for this board is that I don't mind certain perfumes. Now granted if that smell has a person attached to it or a certain memory that is not arouing in the least then it does nothing. But a good scent now and then, something like warm skin fresh out of a scrubbing, mostly floral with maybe a hint of spice is always wonderful. And candles on the headboard. God how I love candles, roses and rain. And for some reason the colour black. Right, enough for now.
...“And candles on the headboard.” Hmmm I just don’t know about that one Ms.WandererRosetta... I mean to say like depending on the various activities that could be going on, well, seems could have a devastation if candles all aglow were to get misplaced and happen say upon satin sheets...the flames, the utter chaos and destruction in only a matter of say seconds... Personally, though I cherish candles with scents long lasting, I should rather have them in a location more secure. Ms. Gracey here considering the taking of safety precautions while at the same time maintaining sensual sensitivity.
I agree with you on that one Grace. It could be a disaster waiting to happen otherwise.
Yeah, move the candles to a night table or something.
well, some folks might be in to hot wax.
Hot wax is “no problem”… Vehicles go through car washes all the time with sometimes the additional treatment of carbona hot wax added…
..then too hot wax for removal of un-wanted hair
…hot wax in the medical treatment of those with various muscle sprains
….hot wax to use in the sealing of documents in/with the conjunction of various seals pressed into the hot wax making for a seal.
…..Hot wax used in various arts n- crafts decorating projects…
This is true, if you are talking about the humonoid species. Now that this topic has gotten way out of hand...
Hot wax and hot person in bed at the same time with you = dead people along with dead candle. Not to mention bye-bye house... or hotel.... Herm, no... Bad idea, bad idea.
what about a good accent? I like the french or italian accents on a girl. Spanish isn't bad either. Also what type of voice? I really tend to not like the throaty voices, but the really sort of higher-timbre femenin ones.
Okay, I'm female and not attracted to other females, but I have to comment on this voice thing. Women in their 20's, 30's and even older who have high voices that make them sound about 10 years old annoy me to no end. Maybe they can't help it, but I feel like some of them purposely play up this aspect of their voices. I think if I were lesbian or a man, I could not see myself being attracted to women who talk like little girls. That being said, I also don't like women who sound as if they've been heavy smokers for about a hundred years. So I guess I prefer women who sound grown up but not like a man.
Now for men's voices, I really do prefer deep voices but have liked many men who don't have real deep voices. I sort of get turned on when you can hear a catch in a guy's throat as he talks. Not that puberty changing voice thing, but sort of a catch you hear every once in awhile, especially if he is talking about his feelings for you. That really gets to me.
Hmmm. This topic got some very interesting responses.
Turn-ons: accents of almost all kinds, deep voices, certain scents, sexual aggression/boldness, longish hair (not past the shoulders), and to get away from actual characteristics a bit, massages and having my hair played with. The end, I do believe.
Turn ons? Soft, thick healthy hair, preferably strait or slightly wavey. Soft, well-cared-for lips. Gentle hands with elegant and knoing fingers. The ability to play just about any sort of instrument. Most accents, especially Ireish accents, Russian, British, Italian and Scottish, an expressive voice that lets one know if it's owner is smiling, if they are about to cry, if they're feeling a dry sort of amusement, a nice laugh that rumbles up from their belly and chest, not just a false nasle laugh, someone fun who is willing to joke around with false accents, role playing and mutually shared jokes
Ok, so this topic hasn't had a post in a while, but I think it's worth reviving.
From a man's point of view, Becky, I have to agree with your post #59. I too can't stand the bimbo sounding girls; and most European accents don't do anything for me either; save for Germanic...
Now to my confession: I am an unabashed BBW/SSBBW admirer. I have been attracted to larger women as long as I can remember. I absolutely adored a girl at high school who had the most infectious personality and was a very big girl; I shall never forget the day the boys were chasing her and she buried herself firmly against my back.
The night I met my wife and she asked me before dinner if I might like to dance, I thought "I hope she's big"! At that time, she was still married to some-one else, but fate brought us together.
I have read, but don't have the article that spoke of a survey that was taken of people who were blind before puberty. I felt entirely vindicated, because the survey found that a significant number of the respondents had a preference for a larger partner; I guess this also included the women...
I would be interested to know if anyone else shares my preference.
Wow. That is quite interesting. I've never come across that kind of study/survey before. And I must agree with the bimbo/valley girl thing being a turn off. That doesn't turn me off quite as much as a girl who thinks and speaks like she's from the hood but still... it won't score any points with me that's for sure.
Barotono, could you explain BBW/SSBBW please?
Ah people this topic was new, so I've been reading it. The hot wax isn't hot enough to burn the skin and there are candles that can be burned and the wax from them used as a massage oil. They have a nice smell as well. Caution is the key with fire, but wax can be nice.
Now my turn ons.
Smell is one of these, not perfume, but a womans natural scent. Touching, massages given I mean I like to receive, but giving is better for me. Baths, kissing, and tongue play. My list gets long, but these are a few.
Just felt the need to update my previous response. Ok, medium to long hair, being told how much I am wanted, when my partner makes sounds of desire, frustration, need, delight and arousal during love making, warm but not hot weather, a warm soft rain in the early fall or late spring, having my hair brushed, being able to feel the sun on as much of my skin as possible, velvit, hearing a smile in someone's voice when they say my name, watching a man eat, especially chocolate or fruit, having my feet massaged, laying on the ground outside in nature and knowing that night will be here soon, and having a mand give firm suggestions or commands to me while they are teaching me, in bed or out of it.
what turns me on is a sexy voice and sexie legs and feet
Well, I love men who are vocal, who tell me just how much of a good job I'm doing for them. I love creativity, someone who is willing to venture and try new things. I am also quite demanding in bed so I like a man who doesn't mind giving the control to me for a change, as well as being able to take it back in other cases. I love certain accents, soft lips, and hands, yes, nice, firm hands. And I love love love to be held and having my neck and nipples sucked on.
I like a hot butch type of woman who wears cologne. They also have to like it a little rough but can read signs of what kind of mood I am in.
My turn ons are: full body rub, foot massage, alot of deep kissing, I like someone who is creative yet sensible, I like firm hands, taking a shower together, a natural clean scent...
Somethings that turns me on includes a Nice athletic body, skinny, but a little muscular, tall, light skin color, a nice cologne to go with it. Not just any guy cologne would do it. I have some specific favorites. Hot voice, some six pack, nice abs, cute smile. A guy that knows how to kiss, yeah, someone who know's what his doing lol smiles, and the number one thing is their eyes. I love looking at their eyes. But before this things, I look at the guy’s personality, his intelligence, and his good attitude first. Physical appearance is just a cover underneath it all one thing that would still stand out is honesty, loyalty, and respect.
One of my biggest turn ons is a rebbel. I have no idea y, but I love rebellious guys. Also, touching a lot, a good kisser, soft hands, a low soft voice, and shyness. No idea for that one either. Someone who can respect if your not ready yet. That's always healthy. Lol.
Intellect and good work ethics and lets not forget conservativism.
First of all, I don't consider myself too shallow, so turn ons aren't essential or the first thing I notice.
Even so...
a confident girl who knows how to get what she wants
a nice feminine voice and if she can sing
long soft hair
soft feminine hands lol
ok... I admit it.. nice feet
no I'm not a perve so don't even go there, nothing wrong with enjoying giving a girl a foot massage. lol
nice legs are also great
Other than that, it's all in the personality. Somebody who loves life, is passionate, and is curious.
Well for me they would be a girl with hair long enough to play with, a sexy voice and I really love a girl who wears perfume.
Lets see what turns me on to add to this board! butterfly star!! oops, did I say that? Well seriously a sweet sutle voice, nice beautiful brest, pateet figure, beautiful smile, and long hair good full pulling while spanking a nide round ass while going at it.
A few of mine:
if a certain place is touched on my back just mmmmmm.
certain ways of touching or kissing me. lol the rest are my little secret :P
Just to clarify butterfly star is my wife :)! so ya! she turns me on. to add to this topic more, biting on my ears, biting on my neck gently really turns me on. Well that's it for now. :)
my husband is crazy but crazy in love with me kissing me in a certain way carressing is always nice and turns me on
lol
Hmmm, my biggest turn-ons: When a very close male friend comes up behind me and kisses my neck or nibbles my earlobe. also, and I know that this probably will sound weird, gbut... if he's sitting on something, such as the dresser or a table, with his legs spread wide, and he's acting all innocent when I find him there and I'm standing between his legs, rubbing my fingers up and down his legs through his pants until I go up far enough to encounter the bulge wich is his very hard cock stgraining against the fabric... mmm. love it. also, having a guy lie on the bed so I can rub his back. I love to take my time, massaging him, relaxing him. If I'm on the phone with a guy, hearing the change in his voice and his breathing as he gets horney is another big turn-on. There's just plain raw sex, which I'm not against, but when I'm really close to someone, and I feel that I can establish a bit of an emotional connection, it's much much better.
Someone who can sing to me, or play music, someone that writes music is even better because if he wrote a song for me, and it was good, I'd just melt...
smooth skin, and soft hair that I can play with, and a nice warm soft voice....
anyway....
lol hey! This post is destroying my professional demeaner on the zone! Noooo!
Personally, I was taught to be ashamed of my sexuality as a kid. This is why when I came to the states and had the first encounter with a girl who called me up and said "come play with me", I felt really awkward because I had no idea on sexual parts of a relationship. I know boundaries of this differ for everyone-sexual means such things as biting one's ears or playing. Actually, I still don't get the whole biting thing;It seems so... animalistic!
Other than that, for me, turn ons can include, but aren't limited to:
-My partner being turned on and expressing that.
-A nice, chiming giggle. That's one is a definite one.
-Them talking about Windows 7 constantly! (not!)
-knowing that they are in the bath.
There are probably more though. Because of my shame towards sexuality though, it is extremely difficult to express these to my partner;I don't know if I'll ever get accustomed to this open nature of the US. Very weird.
I can sort of understand. My parrents, mom especially, steered very far away from the topic of sex, and I didn't have any adults that I could really talk to about it as a teen, so most all of the conversations I had about sex were with people my own age. Sometimes, my girlfriend and I would have conversations that danced around the borders of sex, but there was always some barrior that kept us from getting really sexual. Then there were the guys that I'd talk to, who had just come back from visiting their girlfriends, or who were horney and thinking of all the things they would like to do if only their girlfriend was there. As far as I can remember though, I didn't really have a good adult friend that I could talk to about it. I began to see it as something only talked about in secret, something to hide from the adults. Now that I'm an adult though, I really don't understand why sex has to be such a shameful topic.
chubby cheeks,
timble chin.
rosy lips,
teeth within.
long hair, only on her head.
sexy pillows,
high pitched sweet voice.
soft approach,
little shyness.
Raaj.
A deep masculen voice, big, strong hands, broad shoulders, muscular body good sense of humor, soft hair,being able to be tender yet dominent depending on the situation, a knowledgeable and sentuous mouth, intelegence, and confidence. If a man has most if not all of these traits he will be able to drive me absolutely wild.
Okay, let's see...Well, a guy who respects a woman for who she is and can cope with a woman that works. Someone affectionate, loyal, doesn't keep dangerous secrets, sympathetic but also knows how to have fun. Someone who likes to just lie around and cuddle sometimes and others go out for an evening, not expensive, like a movie or burger, a motorcycle would be cool too. Someone who knows how to cunnicate, something that seems difficult for men, and can tell when the lady needs comfort or being left alone. Someone who likes animals and I like men with accents like from Ireland, France, Italy.
mmm, I love deep voices. I like the hardy laugh of a cowboy too. Rough hands that show me he works hard, broad shoulders, a little (not too much) hair on his chest, etc. I like a man who don't studder nervously too much. I like him to know what he wants. I need a little submissiveness too. haha
Jessie